In general, in order to get a divorce in New Jersey, either party to the divorce must have been a resident of the state for at least one full year before the commencement of the action.
Grounds for divorce in New Jersey are:
In making an equitable distribution of property in New Jersey, the court shall consider, but not be limited to, the following factors:
In all actions brought for divorce, the court may award one or more of the following types of alimony: permanent alimony; rehabilitative alimony; limited duration alimony or reimbursement alimony to either party. In so doing the court shall consider, but not be limited to, the following factors:
In making an award of custody in New Jersey, the court shall consider but not be limited to the following "best interest of the child" factors:
If the minor child is older than 14, the court shall consider the desires of the minor as to with whom he wishes to live before awarding custody.
In determining the amount to be paid by a parent for child support and the period during which the duty of support is owed, the court shall consider, but not be limited to, the following factors:
https://njcourts.gov/ (New Jersey divorce statutes)